I have never done any swinger dating before but my boyfriend and I hav

Published Monday, 30th Nov 19:05 GMT

I have never done any swinger dating before but my boyfriend and I have decided we want to try it out. We've been together for almost 10 years and we are at a point where our love life needs a little pick me up. We had a serious conversation and we both agreed that we would try swinger dating in hopes that we can revive our sex and that way neither one of us will feel the need to stray or find someone else. We have been together long enough to be able to open up with each other a lot, we both in fact admitted that it had become a bit dull and agreed that hopefully this swinger dating will bring some of that passion that we used to have when we first met and fell in love. I will admit that it is a last ditch effort to keep our relationship afloat and that if it does not work we will most likely break up, but I am going into it with a positive attitude.

I am willing to try whatever I have to in order to find out if we are still good together or if its best we go our separate ways. It would be really tough on both of us to walk away from a 10 year relationship, so this swinger dating is very important to both of us. It's going to be a bit strange to kiss another guy and to let him touch me, plus I still have no clue what my reaction to him being with another girl will be yet. I am not really looking forward to that but when I remember that this might just be what we need then I try to see it as a fun time for both of us instead of thinking how we will each be sleeping with other people.

I hope that we are strong enough as a couple to be able to see this through with no bad things happening. I have heard about couples who break up or who fall in love with the other person. That freaks me out but at the same time I also look forward to having that fun sex we used to have. He used to be so good to me, always so soft and loving and if I can get that back then I am willing to try this out.

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